I do complain a lot in my life, about everything that related to me or even not. My assumption, it was genetic, because mom do complain about everything just like what I'm doing.
I share stories to mom a lot, do conversation just like what mother and daughter suppose to do. and ever since I decide to continue my study in psychology, I have this one subject of discussion that really bothers me.
It's when mom starts to talking about how she would be proud of her children if their become a doctor.
oh come on, what's wrong with another profession. It's not about I don't want to make mom happy, but I just feel have no passion becoming a doctor. I don't hate being a doctor, I just don't want to. it's always been succeed making me feel bad about my decision. Heard about what mommy said that she will be proud when having their children as a doctor, makes me feel she wont be happy looking at me which is soon will be a psychologist.
Dear mom, I never want to argue about me being a psychologist instead of being a doctor, I know it just would make you feel more disappointed to me. For God Sake, I really want to be someone that you can be proud of, but being a doctor is just not the way for me. I will make you proud someday, for being who I belongs to. I promise
1 comment:
same thing happened with me, like my father who wants me to be a dentist like him.
you're right, the left thing to do is make them proud of you just the way that you wanted to be. semangaaaaaaat! :D
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